I have a confession, you may want to sit down for this one. I have the sex drive of a college frat boy and the special powers of multiple orgasms. I love “the lovin'”. Kinky, sweet, loud, quiet, hidden in a bedroom, or on the top of a ferris wheel…sex and I are the best of friends.
But, I am not here to boast. I am here to put in a small request. Just because I want to be bent over the couch and called a “dirty girl” at one moment doesn’t mean I want that each time we are hanging out in the living room and I give you the “I really want to get laid” look. Or if I have requested a few times to have a quickie in the shower before work does not give you a pass to grope me each time we share soap in the early morning light. I am a complicated sexual creature who wants variety and freedom to express my kinks and cravings without fear or rejection or judgement and in return I understand that the above statement same applies to you.
This includes the whole dynamic of top/bottom. A complicated world that I am fully involved in as a bottom, but once a blue moon or so there is a spark in me that arises and I want to show you who is boss. This may not be your cup of tea, but allowing me to express myself in this moment is important to my sexual well-being. I would never ask you to do something that makes you totally uncomfortable or implying that I would continue without consent. But, please allow your vision of me as a partner to be flexible and I promise the same for you in return.
Now, where are my cuffs?